After my house was attacked by bandits, I found that my adoptive daughters fought back, but my wife (wielding an enchanted dragonbone dagger) ran away and cowered. I married Ysolda, made her a potential follower so I can use the Ultimate Follower Mod that allowed me to make her wear what I wanted (the wife of the Dragonborn living in a huge house with loads of money should not wear farm clothes). I don't know much about editing with creation kit outside of changing appearance, so here I am, asking for help.